Anger is getting so bad that I might have to leave him
| Guest |
Wednesday, December 12, 2007 at 5:12 PM |
what do you do when your dating someone that no matter what you say or do it makes him mad and he don't see what is wrong with him its all put on me and plus he is a very heavy sleeper to were I pretty much have to jump on him to wake him up. I'm so confused and my anger is getting worse dealing with his. What can I try to do or what do I. Please I need help before I lose it.
| Guest |
Thursday, December 13, 2007 at 5:55 AM |
leave his lazy, angry ass.
| Curtis |
Thursday, December 13, 2007 at 12:17 PM |
Leave. Now. Today.
You CANNOT fix this, no matter how hard you try, or how badly you want to. It simply is not fixable by you. You could suggest he get professional help, but he will only resent you for pointing out his "weakness". He cannot change until he recognizes for himself that he has a problem and genuinely wants to fix it.
Leave now. His anger WILL eventually turn to violence.
Anyway, why would you even want to live like that? Angry at each other all the time? It's no way to live.
If you think you need to be with him for your happiness, you need to leave now and work on your own issues, nevermind his issues.
Neither one of you will be happy as long as you stay together and feed each others neurotic behavior. Separately, you both may be able to sort things out and eventually find a way to be happy on your own. Then maybe you can have a productive relationship with someone else.
| Guest |
Tuesday, December 18, 2007 at 10:27 PM |
lol leave im'
| Guest |
Friday, December 28, 2007 at 1:55 PM |
It's true, you will never be able to change someone elses behavior. I have the exact same problem with my ex fiance, she is such a bit**. anyways... she's been changing lately though, before she almost never said sorry, but one day when she was being abusive to me, she called me into the shower and said "I'm sorry, please forgive me." she said sorry for many things she has never said sorry for, and she seems to be working on her anger issues. anytime she gets angry at me she leaves me, but, the last time she said she was leaving she corrected herself and said sorry. Hopefully these people will wake up fully and see how fu**ed up it is to always be mean and angry.
| Guest |
Saturday, January 19, 2008 at 1:36 AM |
If you aren't compatible, don't waste your time and his.
| Guest |
Friday, April 25, 2008 at 7:12 PM |
He is angry because you won't put out more than once a month.